~~Knocking On Heaven's Door~~
No....I dun mean I am going to die soon....haha...
But I got the song up on my blog!~ Yeah....credits to Ying for helping me with the online storage. :) A real nice song....didn't realise there were so many versions of this song....but I personally prefer the Avril Lavinge version because its more soothing as compared to the other version I have by Guns And Roses...
Had a late night chat yesterday with a former colleague cum used to be good friend. Discussed about his problems in life...told me he just broke up with his gf of 4yrs. Reason for breaking up was because she could not see a future between them. Makes me wonder if its more of an excuse then a reason. I would suggest its more of the former though. I mean if there was not to be a future for them...then why were they together for 4yrs in the first place? I guess at a time like this, what we really need is honesty...too much to ask for? maybe...
Anyway, he went on to tell me that he gave up alot for that gf of his. Drifted away from friends and was just contented to be in their world of 2....until half of his world sadly vanished. Right now, he is trying to make up for the lost friendship of the past 4yrs...but to no avail. Many friends, including myself have moved on...I think he was expecting some sympathy from me eh.
Nah!~~ Why should I? He made a choice to isolate himself...so who else should he blame but himself....I remember we used to go for clubbing...pool sessions and JB trips as a group. A whole bunch of us...until he chose to give us crap excuses like "oh, i need to be with my dear" , "Oh...she wun be happy if I am with u all" everytime we invited him for gatherings. People do get sick of crap easily if he were to realise that. I dun think he did....nor care much less then. So why make the effort now....too late my friend...
Which brings me to my point that I have always believed upon. The fact that friends are more important than all these so called relationships...I am not saying that I do not want to get myself hitched one of these days...haha...but its just that I would not sacrifice friendship just for that alone. Friendships are made for a lifetime....relationships....when its gone....its gone....
I may not have much experiences to validate my claims but I've seen how some friends stood by me when I needed help....were there with me to share my joy and sorrow...isn't that enough to convince me? Sceptics may tell me that's because I have never enjoyed the plesant experience of being in a relationship before...which I would unwillingly agree to if they insist on it. It ain't fair to judge until we are able to weigh the pros and cons accurately. Will get back to all when I have the ability to do so one day....but for the moment...let me believe what I choose to believe... :)
But I got the song up on my blog!~ Yeah....credits to Ying for helping me with the online storage. :) A real nice song....didn't realise there were so many versions of this song....but I personally prefer the Avril Lavinge version because its more soothing as compared to the other version I have by Guns And Roses...
Had a late night chat yesterday with a former colleague cum used to be good friend. Discussed about his problems in life...told me he just broke up with his gf of 4yrs. Reason for breaking up was because she could not see a future between them. Makes me wonder if its more of an excuse then a reason. I would suggest its more of the former though. I mean if there was not to be a future for them...then why were they together for 4yrs in the first place? I guess at a time like this, what we really need is honesty...too much to ask for? maybe...
Anyway, he went on to tell me that he gave up alot for that gf of his. Drifted away from friends and was just contented to be in their world of 2....until half of his world sadly vanished. Right now, he is trying to make up for the lost friendship of the past 4yrs...but to no avail. Many friends, including myself have moved on...I think he was expecting some sympathy from me eh.
Nah!~~ Why should I? He made a choice to isolate himself...so who else should he blame but himself....I remember we used to go for clubbing...pool sessions and JB trips as a group. A whole bunch of us...until he chose to give us crap excuses like "oh, i need to be with my dear" , "Oh...she wun be happy if I am with u all" everytime we invited him for gatherings. People do get sick of crap easily if he were to realise that. I dun think he did....nor care much less then. So why make the effort now....too late my friend...
Which brings me to my point that I have always believed upon. The fact that friends are more important than all these so called relationships...I am not saying that I do not want to get myself hitched one of these days...haha...but its just that I would not sacrifice friendship just for that alone. Friendships are made for a lifetime....relationships....when its gone....its gone....
I may not have much experiences to validate my claims but I've seen how some friends stood by me when I needed help....were there with me to share my joy and sorrow...isn't that enough to convince me? Sceptics may tell me that's because I have never enjoyed the plesant experience of being in a relationship before...which I would unwillingly agree to if they insist on it. It ain't fair to judge until we are able to weigh the pros and cons accurately. Will get back to all when I have the ability to do so one day....but for the moment...let me believe what I choose to believe... :)
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