~~~Valentine's Day 2005~~~
Wat an inept title actually...lolz~
Like V Day got anything to do with me...Oh yah..."celebrated" V Day by playing blackjack with a bunch of friends....and I lost again...I dun seem to have luck in card games huh..I prefer tile games... :p
Since I am on the topic of V Day, would also like to extend my well-wishes to friends around me who are happily attached...hope u all enjoyed ur V Day in some way or another...
And to those concerned friends who are afraid I will be left on the shelf and wish to offer some help in getting me hitched....thanks for your concern eh....but when I do need help..I will ask for it...haha...now leave me alone....and stop asking me when I am getting myself a girlfriend!~
U think so easy meh....its not like shopping for a handphone where you can buy as and when u like okie. Its not that I have high expectations or something...I mean I also do not think I have the right to expect anyway. Maybe I am just more practical...I believe that whatever effort I put in to something...I would need to be able to obtain the rewards justified. That is why I am rather apprehensive too when it comes to relationships and stuffs. I do not want to find myself in a situation whereby I've commited so much time and effort only to have it unreciprocated...which in my case is more often than not.
Too practical? Nah...I think I am just being realistic...I believe there isn't a need to rush anything...if it is meant to be...then it will come to you sooner or later...Of course U could say that I am wasting alot of time in the process....but who is asking u to waste the time man? I am using it for proper causes too....meeting up with friends and enjoying life.....making plans for further studies....work and earn more money....rewards which are measurable and to me of similar importance too....
I think I have seen enough...chances come and go through out your whole life. Just because U missed out on a good "catch" doesn't mean U will not find someone who will be suitable for u in future. Who is to say that the good "catch" that he or she once were will not change in time to come? I am keeping my options open...not going to rule out any possibility....who knows after this post I might just receive a call from someone who realises my existence and ta da!~ I am hitched! haha...but...but...miracles do not happen that frequently I guess... :p
I am actually contented with what I have in life now....Though I am still missing that special piece of jigsaw that makes my puzzle complete...but what's so great about being complete? If everything is complete...that would make life rather meaningless eh~ Sour grapes again hor.... :p
I LIKE....Haha...
Anyway.....so much for V Day...haha....Was doing my usual stuffs over the weekend again...Its like a routine! But a routine I wouldn't mind. Sunday night soccer watching with Alan, Edwin and Sam....where else but Bar'celona~~ Drinks were on Alan....the subsequent supper was on Sam...so I didn't have much to pay except for the cab fare home...Didn't mind that one bit...lolz~
Prior to this, I was actually at Huiyan's house....so nice of her to invite us over for a CNY gathering....nice food by her mum...though I lost in gambling....and was constantly made fun of by them over some comments I made when I was still young then...poly days...haa~~ I dunno why they enjoy doing that so much...but if it does make their day...den I leave it to them...haha....
Anyway...CNY is ending soon....despite it being 15days....but the mood just fizzles out after the first few days....Of course my parents are still expecting visitors the next weekend....but the atmosphere would not be the same anymore though...at least to me. Hmmm...I think this is the longest post I've ever blogged....more to come in future :)
Like V Day got anything to do with me...Oh yah..."celebrated" V Day by playing blackjack with a bunch of friends....and I lost again...I dun seem to have luck in card games huh..I prefer tile games... :p
Since I am on the topic of V Day, would also like to extend my well-wishes to friends around me who are happily attached...hope u all enjoyed ur V Day in some way or another...
And to those concerned friends who are afraid I will be left on the shelf and wish to offer some help in getting me hitched....thanks for your concern eh....but when I do need help..I will ask for it...haha...now leave me alone....and stop asking me when I am getting myself a girlfriend!~
U think so easy meh....its not like shopping for a handphone where you can buy as and when u like okie. Its not that I have high expectations or something...I mean I also do not think I have the right to expect anyway. Maybe I am just more practical...I believe that whatever effort I put in to something...I would need to be able to obtain the rewards justified. That is why I am rather apprehensive too when it comes to relationships and stuffs. I do not want to find myself in a situation whereby I've commited so much time and effort only to have it unreciprocated...which in my case is more often than not.
Too practical? Nah...I think I am just being realistic...I believe there isn't a need to rush anything...if it is meant to be...then it will come to you sooner or later...Of course U could say that I am wasting alot of time in the process....but who is asking u to waste the time man? I am using it for proper causes too....meeting up with friends and enjoying life.....making plans for further studies....work and earn more money....rewards which are measurable and to me of similar importance too....
I think I have seen enough...chances come and go through out your whole life. Just because U missed out on a good "catch" doesn't mean U will not find someone who will be suitable for u in future. Who is to say that the good "catch" that he or she once were will not change in time to come? I am keeping my options open...not going to rule out any possibility....who knows after this post I might just receive a call from someone who realises my existence and ta da!~ I am hitched! haha...but...but...miracles do not happen that frequently I guess... :p
I am actually contented with what I have in life now....Though I am still missing that special piece of jigsaw that makes my puzzle complete...but what's so great about being complete? If everything is complete...that would make life rather meaningless eh~ Sour grapes again hor.... :p
I LIKE....Haha...
Anyway.....so much for V Day...haha....Was doing my usual stuffs over the weekend again...Its like a routine! But a routine I wouldn't mind. Sunday night soccer watching with Alan, Edwin and Sam....where else but Bar'celona~~ Drinks were on Alan....the subsequent supper was on Sam...so I didn't have much to pay except for the cab fare home...Didn't mind that one bit...lolz~
Prior to this, I was actually at Huiyan's house....so nice of her to invite us over for a CNY gathering....nice food by her mum...though I lost in gambling....and was constantly made fun of by them over some comments I made when I was still young then...poly days...haa~~ I dunno why they enjoy doing that so much...but if it does make their day...den I leave it to them...haha....
Anyway...CNY is ending soon....despite it being 15days....but the mood just fizzles out after the first few days....Of course my parents are still expecting visitors the next weekend....but the atmosphere would not be the same anymore though...at least to me. Hmmm...I think this is the longest post I've ever blogged....more to come in future :)
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